July 30, 2007

Don’t be stupid…address the pink elephant in your business plan!

Years ago, after I had started my first company a friend of mine, asked me for my business plan. I guess he figured, “Hell, if she can do it, I can do it.”

I gave him a copy of the plan I wrote for the first company I owned and had raised a few million in operating capital. A few months later, he asked me to read HIS business plan and ASKED for feedback.

So I said, “I read your business plan a few times and am confused. What are you selling? What’s your market? Who are selling to? Who’s your competition? Who are your customers anyway? You don’t have a three year proforma in here…I’m really sorry, but I’ve read it twice and I’m confused.”

“You obviously don’t understand the industry.” he said REALLY frustrated and annoyed.

I took a deep breath and smiled. “Do you still want my feedback? He nodded.

“Here’s the problem. Your business plan is a COMMUNICATION tool! If someone as stupid as me, doesn’t understand it, no one else will. Here’s the other problems:

  1. You are asking for $6 million in seed capital. That’s ridiculous. You might as well tell them you believe in Santa Claus!
  2. The résumé of the chairperson is ten pages long. I can understand that if you’re the previous Secretary of State…but otherwise its ludicrous. No more than two pages, otherwise it’s pretty much BS.
  3. The CEO has no REAL management experience and screaming at your friends doesn’t count. The President is the only one with management experience, and you have no one running sales. Put your CEO into the role as VP of Sales. With your management structure I could have been in charge of NASA!
  4. If I don’t understand your business plan…doesn’t matter what the industry is…you aren’t communicating and that’s a problem. Unless your audience belongs in the zoo they will be totally confused!
  5. You don’t have a WOTS analysis and that tells me you haven’t done any due diligence, or you haven’t done the due diligence necessary. It tells me you’re sloppy.
  6. Now if you don’t understand why these issues are important, let me know and I’ll explain them more fully.” (Course I didn’t include the comedy routine..and was much nicer…I’m doing this for your reading enjoyment!)

“Ev, you just don’t understand the industry. That’s the problem.”

I thought I just wasn’t smart enough…he’s obviously brighter than me. Ask for advice, then don’t consider it. Fifteen years later, they never received a dime of funding. What did they need to do? It was simple, the following:

  1. Ask for a reasonable amount of seed money, which depends on the industry but for the purposes of his plan it wasn’t more than $2 million. (seed capital)
  2. Seek advice and then listen to it.
  3. Cut the Chairman and CEO to Vice President of Sales. Make the President the CEO & President.
  4. Re-write every resume into a one-page curriculum vitae for a business plan.
  5. Give your plan to ten people and if they don’t understand it…rewrite it again. Give it to ten more people and if they don’t understand it…write it again.
  6. Do a clear and succinct WOT analysis. Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats and Strengths.
  7. Do a superior competitive analysis…no BS
  8. Put every negative into the plan…why? Your investors will be impressed, and 1000 times more likely to invest in you. Why? Because you are realistic not a dreamer! The truth is, your investors are thinking it anyway…they just aren’t saying it…so don’t be stupid…be realistic!

My philosophy in life is to put the negative on the table and make it a positive. It builds credibility. The pink elephant is standing in the room. You might as well address it!

 

Copyright 2007 Ev Nucci


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June 10, 2007

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May 16, 2007

What Bush, Cheney, Blair, Wall Street and business could learn from Aristotle and Einstein. Admit your mistakes you idiot!

Aristotle said, “it is not once, nor twice but times without number that the same ideas make their appearance in the world.”

Marc Champion, of the Wall Street Journal, writes that Tony Blair resigned his post as Prime Minister of the United Kingdom because of his association with President George Bush. BBC News reports that Christian Cox, a US Citizen, living in London, wrote to the BBC news website to express her concern about the amount of abuse she receives because of her nationality.

When I went to college in England, Ronald Reagan was President. And do you now what the Brits said to me?

“Only in America could a movie star be a President.”

I agreed. Only in America. I was not proud of the fact that Reagan was our President. Are you kidding? Ronald Reagan was a brilliant orator but not a scholar. Years later when were traveling through Ireland during the Supreme Court’s plenary session relative to America’s next President, Gore or Bush. All stratum’s of Irish society throughout the whole of Ireland said,

“Bush will take the Presidency.”

Now think about it. Isn’t it fascinating the UK could see the obvious, yet we who were so close couldn’t see it? What does that tell you? Socrates said we are incapable of evaluating ourselves objectively. If you know objectivity is impossible why would you not seek independent council throughout all of your life irrelevant of your station, role and function?

Oliver Wendell Holmes said, “once the mind has been stretched by a new idea, it will never again return to its original size.” Being educated in England had been a lifelong dream of mine. Why? Because I think big. I love history. I am avid believer history repeats itself. Going to school abroad taught me more than international culture. I learned global economics, currencies, history, art, etc. from an entirely different perspective. But more important I learned tolerance and acceptance. I studied art history and French for years in high school and in college, but until you live in a foreign country you realize how much you don’t know.

I took my oldest son when he was thirteen years old with me on a business trip to England. I will never forget when he said to me,

“Mom which is better, Philadelphia or London?

“Neither Mike. They are different.”

My son fell in love with England just as I did twenty five years prior.

For those Americans abroad dealing with how our President is affecting the world at large, I would suggest you put yourself into the world’s shoes. The biggest mistakes I have made in my life are when I did not sit in the shoes of the person across the desk from me. When we expect others to see only our perspective we are guaranteed failure.

Irrelevant of your role, CEO or President of a nation, you will make mistakes. It will happen. As Einstein said, “a person who never made a mistake, never tried anything new.” So how is it one could be so foolish or stupid to think you would either not make a mistake or not take responsibility for it? How pompous and arrogant can one nation or person be?

No one can tolerate deceit. What’s wrong with making mistakes? What’s bad about them? I have the learned the most in my life from the mistakes I have made. Even Aristotle said, “the fruits of education are bitter, but the fruit is sweet.” Did George and Cheney cheat their way through history class? Is that the problem? Because I cannot figure out for the life of me how so many smart people take dumb pills. Which part of understanding the cause and effect of denying your mistakes do you not get? You lose credibility. What are you? A liar.

If you aren’t sure what to do ask questions, ask for help. Do your due diligence. Research the problem. You would think someone who attended Yale would have studied history and Alexander. He was the world’s greatest conqueror. I always find it fascinating when learned men have both the hubris and the stupidity to repeat mistakes others have made before them. The disappointment is not that they take down their own nations, it is the domino effect and the lives they destroy.

Arstitotle also said, “It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.” How sad the fragile ego that cannot seek guidance and advice? What is it the ego fears? The discovery of being wrong. The ego saves face. The cost irrelevant. All ends justified. Only the ego’s desires matter.

I love history. Why? History is the study of nations, people and mindsets. I will never-forget sitting at dinner with the local Chairman of the Republican Party and he said to me, “Ev, if a CEO of a major company did what Bill Clinton did, he would have been fired.” I looked at him and laughed.

“What country and what company are you talking about? Are you nuts?” I said to him.

There was major discourse. It was the most ridiculous statement I had ever heard in my entire life. What planet do people live on in this world that actually think that? I have been in corporate America my entire life. And I can tell you first hand that is unadulterated crap. If anybody thinks a CEO would be fired because he fools around with a woman is either drunk or on drugs. I should know. I have been victimized by sexual harassment ad nauseam.
I a registered republican and I must say its sickens me what Republicans did to Bill Clinton. Bill Clinton is the only President we have had in The White House that is both a scholar and every man. I would invite everyone with a brain to comment on this one. Those people with brains wouldn’t dare comment. You can’t actually equate someone’s private sexual exploits with lying to the world about the cause of a war? You cannot be serious. Don’t even come here with that one. Do you know what the Brits were doing about Bill Clinton? They were laughing at us. The fact that Republicans equate Clinton with Bush is beyond my comprehension.

The Republican machinery was so mad because Bill won, they wanted to get back at him. Hillary was absolutely right. It was a vast right wing conspiracy. You know and I know it. A bunch of sanctimonious schmucks. All those guys were fooling around. They always are. You know how I know? Those are the sames guys who are making passes at me. At that really disgusts me. And here’s the other thing on the sex issue. If there is one lie I can forgive it’s sex. Because guess what? I don’t want to know what my husband is doing with anybody else ever. And if you ever tell me, I’ll have to come through my computer and beat the crap out of you. So those who throw stones are living in glass houses. If those pharisaical morons had listened to Einstein you know what he would have told them? “Before God we are all equally wise and equally foolish. God may be subtle, but he isn’t plain mean.”

At a minimum tell the truth you idiots. Say we made a mistake you freaking nuts. Poor George doesn’t understand what he’s done to this nation in the world. What’s even sadder is most American’s don’t get why the world hates Americans so much. I do. Twenty five years ago I was on a plane from London to Frankfurt and I’ll never forget how a Texan treated a stewardess. He grabbed her by her buttocks and in other parts that were repulsive to me. Today, I would stand up and pour my drink on him. Back then I was young and didn’t know what to do. But at that moment I was embarrassed and humiliated to be American.

All George needed to say was:

“We had false information and rushed to judgement. It was a grave error on our part and I take full responsibiity. Given our current situation, here are our options….”

Einstein would have told George, “Anyone who doesn’t take truth seriously in small matters cannot be trusted in large ones either.

And as it related to business? Its the same thing. How many times have I seen the guy at the top who is so sanctimonious in his station yet screwing the little guy? He’s getting paid $45 million and screwing the little guy. Why? That’s what I loved about John Reed. Finally a guy with a brain and integrity. He took the job as head of the NYSE for $1.00. In one fell swoop he restored integrity to NYSE. What a novel idea.

Instead life is about screwing everybody isn’t it? Its about greed. Because what’s the point in doing the right thing? Why would anybody care about the fact that HALLIBURTON has BEEN SCREWING the United States? Hey, what’s the big deal? Cheney was Halliburton’s CEO, but I don’t think we should bring attention to that should we? Good Republican soldiers don’t open their mouths. Just do as your told. Never admit your mistakes. Denial is so much better isn’t it? Destruction irrelevant. It is the golden rule of business right boys? All that really matters are profits and greed.

Elliot Spitzer set a glorious example on Wall Street. Mayor Bloomberg was so concerned IPOs going abroad he spent $700,000 on a study. Lots of integrity there. Get elected, then figure out how to redo the system. $1.4 billion in fines was a coo wasn’t it? All in the name of justice. And mostly without going through the court system. You are truly brilliant Governor. Now what do we do about fixing the IPO system? I mean the problem wasn’t really fixed Govenor Spitzer. But then you knew that didn’t you?

Final lesson is never admit your mistakes. After all what does Einstein and Aristotle know anyway?

Copyright 2007 Ev Nucci


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May 11, 2007

Doshdosh Technorati favorites and building traffic

I got tagged to do the Technorati favs on my blog Murphy’s Law. But I had some thoughts on this tag and it was more appropriate for me to share my thoughts on this blog than Murphy’s Law. So here are my thoughts:

 

I started Murphy’s Law in August, 2006 but then I lost the blog because I’m technologically challenged. I found it in November. Therefore, I really started blogging in November. Initially I blogged to express my frustration with having a special needs son and then my mission grew. Moreover, someone told me to start four blogs and dummy me listened. I started Murphy’s Law on blogger.

 

I contacted James Governor at Monkchips because I was reading everything I could and he suggested I start a blog on wordpress. He was great. What a great guy to give a newbie like me advice. James Governor took time for me and I’ll never forget that.

 

Blogging on the internet is a democracy. Capitalism at its best. The beautiful thing about capitalism and democracy is it gives all of us a chance to raise our own bar. Doshdosh brought awareness to Technorati favorites. What if you didn’t have a favorites button on your blog?

 

Now I must tell you, I am David in a world of Goliaths in the real world. So I have a very different perspective than most people. I also grew up with four brothers. It makes you think very differently than most people. One of my clients was the Chairman of Harvard Alumni Association and said to me, “Ev you are like a man, woman.” It really freaked me out. (Guys go ahead you can laugh like crazy because it is worth laughing at this one…..and check my pics if you want…there’s no fruity stuff going on here) I said “what do you mean?” He said, “Ev, you are very much a woman, but you think like a man.” So there you go.

 

I never speak about my competition. I never bring their name up. Why? This is my own personal philosophy, I’m just sharing it. You can choose to accept or reject it. You can say, I’m a goofball and I would agree with you. I don’t take myself too seriously. But I do try very hard to bring integrity into everything I do. Sometimes than means I may be the dumbest person in the room, so take what I say with a grain of salt.

 

If I speak about my competition, then I bring credibility to them. Why would I do that? If I badmouth my competition, what does that make me? I grew up at Johnson & Johnson. In my mind, I learned from the best. We dealt with the Tylenol crisis. Now I work on Wall Street. I’ve had to swim with sharks.

Here’s the other thing. Remember what your mom taught you? If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all? I try hard to live by that. And trust me I have screwed up many times. I’ve taught my kids ‘you have God on one shoulder and the devil on the other. Each is talking to you. Who are you going to listen to’? Every day CEOs make the choice of who they are going to listen to. We saw it happen at Enron, Worldcom, Arthur Anderson. If anyone thinks it won’t happen again, I can assure you it will.

Finally, when you have a child with special needs you see the world through a whole different lense. You see how ugly people can be. That’s why I write Murphy’s Law. It’s my hope that I can raise the world’s bar. In my own small pathetic way, I laugh at myself. Hopefully some people will laugh with me and hopefully people will find that they are bigger than they ever thought they could be.

In my mind you chose how you’re gonna play the game. I think this was one cool thing to do. Because a few things happened. Technorati grew up. Doshdosh made some stuff happen. And we all learned a whole lot in the process. Competition is healthy, it’s not bad. It raises everyone’s bar. I congratulate you Doshdosh. You made some cool stuff happen.

 

Copyright 2007 Ev Nucci


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May 1, 2007

Do the right thing


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May 1, 2007

I was tagged by Barry Welford on a magazine meme

Barry Welford at BP Wrap, Internet Marketing From A Different Point Of View tagged me on a magazine meme started by Andy Beal. I’m a reader and a thinker, so I like this meme. I read a lot. In fact when we go on vacation, I can down five books in no time. Books are cherished possessions in my home. When my sons were young, I started a personal “library” for them. So what did they receive as Christmas gifts? Books and magazine subscriptions. So you may think my magazine list odd, but it gives you insight into how wide spread my interests are:

  1. Time
  2. Health
  3. New York Magazine
  4. CFO
  5. Chief Executive
  6. Money
  7. Fortune
  8. Choice
  9. Wired
  10. Waters
  11. Smithsonian
  12. The Futurist
  13. Optimize
  14. Columbia College Today
  15. Surf
  16. Forbes
  17. Institutional Investor
  18. Fast Company
  19. Writers Digest

Now here’s my philosphy. You learn a whole about someone by what they read. And you also learn a whole about someone by whether or not they respond to something like this meme. This is one I actually respect. Why? Because it’s one that can teach us something. I’m curious what these guys read (and I have 4 brothers, 3 sons, I use the guy thing generically, please get over it) :

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April 25, 2007

The pie of knowledge and strategic thinking

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How can you succeed at global competition if you don’t discuss knowledge. What is the pie of knowledge? Here’s my take on it.

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I recently posted The Art of Strategic Thinking on Squidoo. Why? It’s my attempt to help with the “know it all disease” that exists at universities, in corporate America, and on Wall Street. Where does this know it all disease come from? Well, I guess some people actually believe that because they graduated from a certain school or based on what they do for a living they know everything. That is just funniest idea in the world isn’t it? How can one know everything? What is it that Einstein said, “the only thing that gets in my way is my education.”

A gentleman. who works for probably the greatest asset management firms in the industry said to me during an interview, “Ev, it took us a long time to learn that one of the biggest problems that exists on Wall Street today is that we take really bright guys out of the best schools in the country and for some stupid reason we believe that leadership and management happens through osmosis. Its almost as if we get stupid building our companies.”

I admire this gentleman. He’s one of the few I’ve met that gets it! You see history does repeat itself. Over and over again. Leadership and management is not taught through osmosis. It needs developed and mentored. And where does great leadership start? With great integrity. How can one wonder why there is an integrity issue in corporate America? It’s simple. I call it arrogance and with that comes stupidity!

With wisdom, you realize the more you know you don’t know.

Copyright 2007 Ev Nucci

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April 18, 2007

One-Day Blog Silence Initiative in honor towards the victims of Virginia

This day shall unite us all about this unbelievable painful & shocking event and show some respect and love to those who lost their loved ones. On April 30th 2007, the Blogosphere will hold a One-Day Blog Silence in honor towards the victims of Virginia. 33 died at the US college massacre. Everyone with a blog can join this special event.

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April 6, 2007

Dweck is not an expert on success. The truth about publishing and academia!

Guy Kawasacki wrote an interesting post on Carol Dweck on “The Effort Effect” and Mindsets. Though I have not read the book yet, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success.

This is taken directly from the Editorial review from Amazon:

Editorial Reviews
From Publishers Weekly
Mindset is “an established set of attitudes held by someone,” says the Oxford American Dictionary. It turns out, however, that a set of attitudes needn’t be so set, according to Dweck, professor of psychology at Stanford. Dweck proposes that everyone has either a fixed mindset or a growth mindset. A fixed mindset is one in which you view your talents and abilities as… well, fixed. In other words, you are who you are, your intelligence and talents are fixed, and your fate is to go through life avoiding challenge and failure. A growth mindset, on the other hand, is one in which you see yourself as fluid, a work in progress. Your fate is one of growth and opportunity. Which mindset do you possess? Dweck provides a checklist to assess yourself and shows how a particular mindset can affect all areas of your life, from business to sports and love. The good news, says Dweck, is that mindsets are not set: at any time, you can learn to use a growth mindset to achieve success and happiness. This is a serious, practical book. Dweck’s overall assertion that rigid thinking benefits no one, least of all yourself, and that a change of mind is always possible, is welcome. (On sale Feb. 28)
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.

1. One of my best friends is a Finance Professor at a prominent educational institution. Her husband owns an institutional asset management firm. One of her colleagues was writing a hedge fund book. We discussed his knowledge. She laughed. Enough said.

2. Einstein said, “Information is not knowledge, imagination is everything. It’s more important than knowledge. The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education.” Does academia follow Einstein’s advice? No.

Let’s address the issue of success. Now granted I haven’t read Dweck’s book, but how are academics evaluated? How do they become so-called experts? Isn’t it based on the research they publish?

If you doubt my claim, here’s what Richard Levin, President of Yale University said on the subject in an article titled, “Yale’s less global than I thought it could be” :

Tang: Jennifer Washburn, an American education expert, recently published a book entitled The Corporate Corruption of American Higher Education. The title is very sensational, isn’t it? The book argues that commercial forces have quietly transformed virtually every aspect of academic life. Many problems occur accordingly in elite universities: Students rate their teachers poorly; Teaching is neglected while research overemphasized; Non-faculty employees are too many; Top and tenure professors are overpaid; Faculty members becoming too old. How do you think of those problems? Is the writer exaggerating?

Levin: I do believe Ms. Washburn is exaggerating but there is a kernel of truth in what she says. The challenge for me as a university president is to ensure that teaching is not neglected, that research continues to thrive, and that students continue to be challenged by their professors.

3. Ben Franklin was self-published. However, getting published today how more to do the size of your national or global platform than it does your expertise. How big are you is the issue or can your books sell? The reality is publishers don’t want to publish a book unless they know its going to sell.

4. Relative to learning and knowledge let’s talk about Thomas Jefferson. Have you ever been to Monticello? If you haven’t go check out his library. He was self-taught.

5. My issue is not to throw research or academics under the bus, it’s simply to put it into perspective. I am an advocate of research…I whole heartily support and believe we cannot live without research. However, isn’t it time we had a more realistic approach and shift the paradigm in the academic world?

Here’s a classic story. Years ago one of my clients was looking at a firm founded by a prominent finance professor. When he gave us the number he wanted us to pay for it, we laughed. Teaching finance to the finance professor. I’m a pragmatist. If we don’t merge academia with business, we’re going to continue to slide as a nation….and we’ll be serving the Chinese their rice. And all to serve Academia’s ego. Because the issue is, who’s name is on the research, isn’ it?

6. So what irritates me about Dweck’s book is they studied success relative to student’s right? Now, I’m sure their intentions are good. But how can you study success when you have not applied it to the real world? Now I may be wrong, because I haven’t read the book yet and if so, then please forgive my ignorance and it wouldn’t be the first time I’d be wrong. But here’s my question, why wouldn’t you study people in the real world? Those that have failed and succeeded? Why does this matter? Here’s why it matters:

I believe the author’s premise may be flawed. You can have a growth mind, yet fail miserably! How? Academia focuses solely on intellectual pursuits yet fails miserably at educating youth self-awareness, interpersonal skills, and career management. I will give you a perfect example.

I was a seminar with a Harvard graduate. A brilliant young lady. She was eager to learn. But she was without a doubt one of the most arrogant and pompous people in the group. She kept her distance from everyone. Why? In her mind she was better than everyone else. When people asked what she did, she replied, “Google me.” So, let me ask you, did she have a growth mind set? Sure. But she’s not going too far in life. I have mentored thousands of young men and ladies….many are clueless as it relates to what they need to survive in the real world! What are we teaching them in academia? How to think. But not the skills necessary to be successful.

Another brilliant gentleman. Wharton MBA. Ten years after graduating from Wharton he had five different jobs. Why? Because he was a pompous ass. He was better than everyone else. The growth mindset doesn’t work here does it? Can one have a growth mind set and still fail in life? Yes. My issue is that magic bullet books with “secret recipes” are a misnomer…and to suggest they are an “answer” to a particular problem gives the world a false sense of security.

Here’s the issue, its not what college you attend. Are you a learning machine open to the pain and agony associated with building self awareness? Or here’s a revolutionary concept, why don’t we teach self-awareness at our educational institutions?

I’m quite sure many academics will turn there nose up at this premise. Those are the same academics that sit in a closed room snickering at one another during a faculty meeting wanting to rip their eyes out of their sockets because they can’t stand being in a room with a bunch of know it all like themselves.

Now, here’s anther even more classic example. I remember interviewing a candidate with a Ph.D from MIT. Here’s the interview:

“What do you know about my client?”

“Everything.”

“Let me give you some background on the founders.”

“I already know everything.”

That was the end of the interview. I didn’t even considered him Why? Because he is incapable of listening. Will he ever listen to his boss? Will he ever hear his employees? Will he learn anything, ever? What does he suffer from? The know-it all syndrome? And from where does he get? The Ph.D disease?

My good friends have aptly described for me the pain and agony associated with sitting in a room with a bunch of Ph.D.s at a university faculty meeting. This is a grossly sad commentary on our educational system isn’t it? When people start thinking they know everything, it creates a dangerous world, and if the people I’m entrusting to educate my children think they know everything, what’s the future of our world look like?

What did Einstein say? “The only thing that gets in my way, is my education.”

I’ve spent the last 10 years interviewing about 10,000-15,0000 people. For one of my clients, I’ve interviewed probably 4,000 for one of the fastest growing companies on Wall Street, now the biggest asset management firms in the world, BlackRock, Inc. The founders, have said to me, “what is it that you do, and you can discover no one else can? You have some type of secret sauce. And how is it you can get people to talk to you that no one else in the world will?”

I’m interested in people and I listen. I go beneath the surface and find the hidden jewels that no one else looks for. I also look for the ugliness that we all have. Because its there. I know it is. The truth is we hide our dark sides from others. It comes out only in the darkest hours, doesn’t it? It’s easy to be good when things are good. The real test of someone’s character is when things are bad. Not when they are good.

The real test of someone’s character is when someone has chewed you up and spit you out. And that’s what I want to know. What are you going to do when someone has spit you out. I want to know has it happened? And if it hasn’t happened, I probably don’t want to talk to you. Why? Because then you’ll fall down on my dime…or I should say, my client’s dime. And that’s not a good idea!

Arrogance is a sign of ugliness. Eventually they become a cancer in an organization. These people are not genuine. Nor are they authentic in their generosity of human spirit. Nor are they an inspiration to others. There is no room for we, and only room for me.

Understanding that “me” people will never be “we” people is part of my secret sauce. Its taken me 30 years to perfect it and a million mistakes along the way.

What’s the point? How can a book that studies students and how they learn be considered as a model for success? Its ludicrous. This says more about publishing and academia than it does success.

Updated 4.6.2007.

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March 29, 2007

What does solo mean?

chimpomatic_main.jpgSometimes it means we are individuals. Sometimes it means we are going it alone, or on a lonely path, or unique. Sometimes it means we are so stubborn in our thoughts and in our ways we are foolish enough not to listen to others so we put others at risk.

10066301.jpg It doesn’t matter if its politics, business or religion. The ugly truth of the matter is that we abrogate our responsibility when we refuse to listen. And whom are we ultimately accountable to? What is holding us back? What is the most DANGEROUS AND FRAGILE thing on this earth? THE EGO. The ego destroyed millions of people’s life savings, killed millions of lives and propagates hate throughout the world. And what does the ego seek? Righteous, power and greed. Its just the simple! And so many in the name of God…..or in the name of Jesus…..propagate hate. That’s all it really is. Nothing more, nothing less. Hate and ego.

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